Recently I've noticed a lot of parents whining at their kids. I don't like whining in general, although I'm sure I do it more than I realize. But it seems to me that whining at your kids is a little too far. Try telling your children what to do. You're the parent, you should have the authority. If you don't, maybe try disciplining your kid on occasion. Than maybe they'll listen to you and even respect you.
Kids are supposed to whine at their parents, not the other way around. Frankly, if you're a dad whining at your kid, you're pretty pathetic. Grow a pair